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2009-11-05T11:53:00.002+08:00

Today had HIS module.
came to school late with shaun,terrence and angeline.
stupid rain make me sleep so well that i dont want to wake up.
new facilitator,fresh start, poor mr low.
wish to hear his lame jokes but love this new faci as well.
need to fix laptop for opera to work for my ut.
how sad my computer life is.

just came back from lunch @ ARTBITES
managed to fix my computer and can use PMS.
my facilitator is so nice and thoughtful.
we all like her very very much(:
thumbs up to her from all of us!

told GY that he can teach me another day.
great! i have a FA teacher in my midst!
but Jasmine, please don't be jealous...

I shall end here as I have to return GY's computer soon.
So tata everyone and I'll be back to update soon!

today

2009-11-04T15:19:00.004+08:00

Today have Service Quality lesson, which me and yong en were tempted to have breakfast but decided to be good girls and go to class on time..

Got for bern and yong en Old Chang Kee on the way to school.

Went to find bern in his class after meeting 1...

see angeline's and bern's height difference??? hahaa... they are soo cute lahh... 1 head difference!

met jasmine outside the class after meeting 2 and she had FA today.. HEADACHE!!! sighs..

candid shots taken by yong en!!

went to ARTBITES to take away CURRY CHICKEN and went to E1 to eat lunch with classmates, bern and ria...(:

My classmates are so bonded! (: teehee..

yong en and I <3

raphael's face in the way of SK and Des pic...

bern (:

candid shot done by BERN.

ended lunch with my loves short and sweet(: guys were horny again... sighs what to do? BOYS WILL ALWAYS BE BOYS... shaun taught angeline naughty stuff again...

IIP(industry internship program) email was sent today which yong en, bern,edwin,debbie,germaine,julin,fangying,bern,nicolle,shak,christina and weiling are going for the first semester NEXT YEAR!!! OMG!! I'm gonna miss them!(:

must meet up after work okays?? I'll drive by then! I PROMISE!! love you all loads!!! class is going to be boring without you all!

DO NOT DATE THIS GUY

2009-11-04T14:59:00.003+08:00

Do not date THIS guy

As the sayings go, "the skies the limit" and "there are many fish in the sea". But, there are just some 'fish' that are going to cause you a real tummy ache if you eat them - so much more pain than pleasure. Here are a list of those you should be looking out for and steering clear off.

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Do you find yourself constantly being let down by the men you date and bouncing between being single and in a relationship as often as Jessica Simpson? The problem isn't you; it's the men you're dating.

The holes in your dating sieve are currently bigger than the one we have in the ozone layer, and its allowing any man who shows you even the smallest morsel of attention into your life. You need to tighten the reins on your life and raising the dating bar. It's a huge experiment requiring lots of trial and error, but there are certain men who don't even deserve an ounce of your attention. And, once you know what to look for, it's not too hard to sift through the rest of the dating pool to find Mr Right.

But, until Mr Right does come along, here's a list of guys you should definitely banish from your list of potential options.

Mr Tin Heart

The emotionally unavailable man has been the pitfall of many single women. Yet, he's the easiest of the species to spot. So why do we get ourselves into such a mess with him when we usually know early on that it would sooner snow in Malaysia before you can get him to commit?

“These women really believe that they can change a man's mind about being with them, or they simply make themselves believe they can, because they feel like they have no other choice,” explains Sally Reeves* a relationship counselor.

There's usually a reason why these men can't commit. Your job isn't to figure out why that reason has come to be, but instead, if it's a reason that's actually good enough for you. If it is, then may be you need to look at yourself and ask "why don't I find somebody who is ready for commitment?" says Susan Jeffers, author of 'Opening Our Hearts To Men.'

#1 Playa

He's the perfect lover, makes you feel like you're the queen of his world and that he's perched you high above a pedestal away from any other woman in his sight. He's well-dressed, charming, witty, funny, and his manners are impeccable. He's out to make an impact on the women he makes, and he'll definitely make that impact on you...and every other woman that tickles his fancy.

Every woman will come across at least one of this kind in her lifetime, and while the charm and attention may be extremely flattering, don't be fooled. You know you'll be nursing a broken heart when he gets bored.

Mr Mummy

In Western cultures, any 20something year old man still living under his parent's roof would (almost literally) be laughed out of house and home. While the same concept cannot be applied here in Asia, it's not hard to spot a mummy's boy.

The signs aren't even subtle. He's alwaysgoing to choose is mum (or aunt or sister) over you. And while there may be times he's hesitant about making that decision, make no mistake, the end outcome will always be the same: Mum 1 - You 0.

What's worse, when things don't work out, he'll believe that the issues lay with you not trying hard enough to get along with his family.

Tan Sri Lambat (a.k.a. Sir Late-A-Lot)

Let's be honest here: the concept of 'Malaysian timing' is just an all too common excuse for us to be late. But the fact that we know there's going to be traffic, yet make no allowances for it, just says that we're being disrespectful. Same goes for a guy. If he knows he's made an appointment to meet you at a certain time, yet can't be bothered to plan around that accordingly, he's pretty much saying, "I'm unreliable, disorganised and I don't really respect your time."

“Every time you break a time promise there is a consequence and you are sending a subtle message to the person you stood up that they are less important than you or whatever you were doing” Karen Kawalec*, a behavioral specialist and counsellor from the UK. "Do this enough, and you’ll strain the relationship you have with this person for the long term. It also says that you aren’t responsible, reliable, or maybe even sincere and honest.”

Mr Office-Is-My-Home

We applaud men with ambition. We applaud their dreams and aspirations and seriously, that go-getter attitude is sexy! But there's a time and place for everyone, and no job needs to be worked at all day, every day.

On the plus side, the workaholic is always well-dressed with impeccable manners and an admirable knowledge of many things. He knows how to make you feel like a real lady. On the other hand, dinner dates (if they hadn't already been cancelled) will usually turn into a solo affair, with you picking at the food while he screams down the phone about some deal or the other.

However, we're not going to relegate all workaholics to the no-fly zone of dead beat men. You'll have to exercise some discretion, and patience, to sort through the ones you can deal with and the absolute no-hopers.

Mr Whiny

This guy's self-esteem has fallen so low, it's almost made friends with the Hobbits of middle Earth. But, he doesn't think it's his fault; it's always someone else's.

Maira*, a psychologist of 10 years says, “as an adult, pity becomes a burden. It's almost endearing for a child to be sucking its thumb and clutching a blanket. For an adult, well... you're not going win a whole lot of admiration among your peers! Pity disconnects you. It disconnects you from yourself, from other people, from your world, and from your won control.”

His constant belief that he is the victim means he's always seeking attention and becomes distressed when he feels he isn't getting what he needs. While some women's overpowering maternal instinct draws them to men like this, eventually, they will get tiring.

Mr Quick Trick

Admittedly, everyone lies. But, this lying leech has an excuse for e.v.e.r.y.t.h.i.n.g.

At the start of you relationship, the fibs were subtle. You knew there was something not quite right about his explanation but he backed it up with something solid, so you let him get away with it. But, the more he gets away with, the bigger his lies get.

"It's like he couldn't help himself and was addicted to lying!" says Shauna* of her ex. "I used to believe him at first because they were just little things, but eventually, they became so frequent, and sometimes were even so ridiculous I actually felt embarrased for him!"

The Ex Texter

There's nothing wrong with being friends and keeping in touch with your ex, but too much contact can prove detrimental to future relationships.

“When you continue an emotional relationship with someone instead of letting go, you will usually have subconscious feelings for them or realise that the feelings never went away, which can be damaging to new or potential relationships,” Sally* says. “But, you get a rush from doing it and from hearing back, and it's naughty, yet safe in its own right."

The Game Boy

Nothing wrong with a man and his game console...unless he chooses it over you.

“In the broad sense, it’s (consoles) a substitute for social interaction, or just another outlet” explains Ken Lee*, who works in a computer games outlet. “Computer games represent an individual challenge for men and can be a way of relaxing.”

In a way, gaming to men is what shopping is to women - therapy. But, that doesn't mean we shop all the time. The absolute danger sign ladies, is when he calls in sick at work because (a) he didn't sleep the night before battling zombies or (b) he needs the day to advance to the next level. When that happens, either 'accidentally' trip and spill a mug of hot tea over the console, or, if you fear that may endanger your life lest he rage at you, just leave his keys by the door and leave. You'll be better of for doing it.

2009-11-03T23:54:00.001+08:00

left school halfway as I have alot on my mind due to stress coming from work,studies,family life and council. Nothing else will matter more than these. Went back to cousin's house to slack for awhile and freshened up to meet the rest at ION.

went late so didn't eat dinner with the rest but later we took a few photos and walked to somerset to get bern's stuff before heading down to ORCHARD CENTRAL.

had some candid and stupid photos. later after we finished desserts at gelare we headed down to spinelli to do Rj and resumes.. which I haven't done yet... oh wells.I'm lazyt o blog just blogging for the photos only...(:

DHHMers hangout.

2009-10-31T17:04:00.001+08:00

Went to bernard's place after school with

Julin

Yong En

Germaine

Edwin

Ee Theng

Raphael

Bern's place was awesome!!! hahaha. Very nice interior designed by his dad. His parents are soo hospitable and pleasant.(: Really loved his place. We played mahjong, ROCK BAND and went swimming in the late night and did ridiculous things :P Some of us left early and some stayed overnight at his house which we were shagged, but most importantly we had fun and really enjoyed ourselves at Bern's house!(:

photos to be uploaded another time as it is with germaine(:

went off early in the morning as bern had an appointment and his mum dropped us off at the bus stop. THANKS AUNTIE!!!

took a straight bus to Wilson's home and wanted to scare Berenice but she went out early for her driving...

AND SHE PASSSED TP!!!!!!!OMG! YEAH!

1st time pass! this girl rocks!

I'm happy to have met her as whenever I come over to wilson's house she will be my companion and watch cartoons together and talk crap till late in the night.

She brings me awfully chocolate some times and do work together(:

She is my scandal for the trip to thailand man!

WHOOTS! can't wait for december to come!!!

This is where we will be staying!! most likey... haha(:

Not going for halloween tonight @ ZOUK as I'm having dinner with my aunt, uncle, berenice and wilson as I'm being a couch potato and want some personal time to myself.

enough rubbish!

2009-10-31T16:55:00.000+08:00

Enough rubbish, enough talk.

I have no fucking relationship to you whatsoever.

I stated fucking facts that I saw.

If you don't know your english go check the DICTIONARY.

Don't act childish with me as it is plain stupidity.

Pushing the blame on me will not fucking work.

So FUCK OFF or I will not be little miss nicey anymore...

2009-10-24T12:38:00.000+08:00

Headed down to Hilton after school with DHHM crew!

School collaborated with Hilton to work on ION event which turns out to be splitting the DHHMers into 2 groups.

One group did ION event at CHANGI side

The other did on a Mercedes Benz S series New Launch,

which Julin,Peijie,Debbie,Germaine,Lianli and I got to do.

shall just write until here as I'm lazy to blog about this event..(: